16/02/2026

Tutor and mentor at school: the role of mentors in child development

Tutor and mentor at school: the role of mentors in child development
Tutor and mentor at school: the role of mentors in child development 136
Today it is important for a child to understand themselves, realize their potential, dreams, and goals. It is also important to have the opportunity to discuss life challenges with a trusted adult — often those that are not related to school subjects — or to outline a plan and implement it while feeling supported not only by parents but also by educators.

Who is a tutor at school?

At MriyDiy, a tutor is a mentor who supports a child in the educational process in primary school, that is, in grades 1–4, taking care of personal growth, safety, and the formation of a class community.

The role of a tutor at school

At school, a tutor:

  • supports the child, including adaptation to first grade;
  • develops independence and other important values and competencies;
  • develops the child’s strengths and helps define personal and academic goals;
  • conducts individual conversations with the child, including discussions about dreams, needs, challenges, and ways to overcome them;
  • creates a trusting classroom environment that supports the development of each child;
  • helps organize the school day;
  • facilitates communication between the child, teachers, and parents.

For a child, a tutor means:

  • a personalized approach in education;
  • emotional support and safety — both physical and psychological;
  • guidance in the educational process in partnership with teachers;
  • a connection between the student, teacher, and family.

Who are mentors and how they differ from tutors at MriyDiy

A mentor is a guide who supports a child in the educational process in grades 5–9, ensuring personal development progress and healthy class dynamics.

Who is a mentor at school?

This is an adult who:

  • develops the child’s strengths and helps define personal and academic goals;
  • develops independence and other important values and competencies;
  • conducts individual conversations with the child, including discussions about dreams, plans, challenges, and ways to overcome them;
  • creates a trusting classroom environment that supports the development of each child;
  • facilitates communication between the child, teachers, and parents.

Mentor focus

A mentor works on:

  • creating a safe, reliable, and supportive environment for students;
  • motivating students to learn;
  • developing life skills and self-reliance;
  • building a value-based community.

At the same time, both tutors and mentors:

  • conduct weekly formation and reflection sessions for the class (in a training format);
  • communicate regularly with parents;
  • observe the child in the educational environment;
  • help create events in the classroom and school.

Tutoring and mentoring as an educational approach

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Tutor-mentor support is one of the unique methodologies of the MriyDiy formation process. It is based on observation carried out by the tutor or mentor during lessons, breaks, school events, or trips. This observation is structured: the tutor or mentor uses a specially developed observation form. Based on long-term observation, the tutor or mentor compiles a behavioral profile of a particular student and an overall profile of the class.

Within the tutor-mentor approach, a child:

  • learns to reflect — to understand what worked, what was difficult, and why;
  • takes responsibility for learning, personal decisions, and choices;
  • feels the emotional support of an adult who is nearby and ready to help.

This approach helps the child learn consciously and understand themselves and their needs.

How tutor-mentor support works at school

In practice, this includes:

  • regular individual meetings;
  • observation of the educational process;
  • help in defining goals and developing steps to achieve them.

Why tutor-mentor support is important for children of different ages

In primary school, tutoring is especially important because this is when a child first becomes familiar with school rules and learns to be part of a community. For many children, this stage is accompanied by stress, overload, and fear of mistakes, so the presence of a tutor helps make adaptation gentle and safe.

How does a tutor help reveal a child’s strengths?

A tutor helps a child to:

  • feel safe;
  • recognize their abilities, strengths, and areas for development;
  • understand what interests them;
  • create personal plans and achieve them.

Child support

Mentors:

  • conduct individual conversations;
  • provide individual and group academic and organizational support;
  • communicate with parents;
  • help children set goals, achieve them, and reflect.

At the center are trust, independence, and the child’s intrinsic motivation.

Why mentors are important for modern children

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  • every child needs a safe environment — both physical and psychological;
  • emotional support helps reduce stress;
  • confidence and responsibility are formed;
  • it is valuable for students to have a role model, often a young adult who has recently been in school and remembers typical student challenges, how to act correctly, find motivation for development and cooperation.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is a tutor in simple terms?

A mentor who helps a child learn comfortably and adapt to school.

Who can become a tutor or mentor?

Respected young adults with pedagogical or psychological education and experience in NGOs or social projects are the most desirable candidates.

How is a tutor different from a teacher?

A teacher teaches a subject, while a tutor supports the child throughout the educational process.

Does every child need a tutor?

Yes, especially during periods of adaptation or change.

Who is a mentor and what role do they play at school?

In the MriyDiy school environment, a mentor works with students in grades 5–9, when the need for independence, choice, and intrinsic motivation increases.

How do tutors and mentors help children develop?

Through support, dialogue, and fostering awareness.

At MriyDiy, tutors and mentors help make learning conscious, safe, and comfortable, where the child feels supported and believes in their own abilities.